This one is going to be a little off my usual procurement related bent, but not too far. I manage a team in The Company’s procurement organization, so this is loosely tied.
So, I have a new manager on my team. She is a star performer and earned her way to this spot. She is great in her technical knowledge and strategic thinking.
But she is also a bit of a blurter. Meaning she’ll say whatever comes to her mind the moment it arrives in her mind. Usually, her frank and brutal honesty is an asset. Sometimes it is also a liability.
Like telling the CTO in a fully packed meeting room that one of the systems developed by his organization “really sucks”.
But I digress.
She’s working on her maturity and managerial style, and I’ve seen her take huge leaps in the past year. She’s a quick study and earnest in her job. That can make up for a lot of shortcomings.
Currently, she’s got an ongoing low-lying issue with one of her employees. Without disclosing details, we’ll just say that her employee suffers with a really bad habit.
This habit drives the manager batty. To the point she brings it up in almost every single one-on-one meeting we have. “Why does she have to act like that?” and “How can I make her stop?”
I’ve spent a lot of time explaining you can’t change people’s personality, but you can change how you respond to it. Meaning you don’t reward bad behavior (which, to be fair, this new manager often caves and gives into “the bad habit”).
Today, while listening to the latest rant, I had an epiphany. I finally figured out why “the bad habit” bothers the manager so much. Because she is guilty of it too, though at a much less intensity.
This got me thinking about myself and the way I manage my team. What blind spots must I have about managing my team based on my own lack of self-awareness?
This should probably be the new catch phrase along with “managerial courage” and “low hanging fruit”.
Managerial self-awareness.
I think for any leader to be effective, they should occasionally take stock of what is bugging them about their team. Then they might think about how it reflects back on them.
We don’t do this enough. I’ll raise my hand as a guilty party.
Being a manager is never a fixed point but always a moving target.
Much to think about today.









